I came across this phrase the other day and it’s the perfect way to summarize your approach to superstar peers, you know the ones I’m talking about. They can do no wrong, they get the best assignments and seem to have the same skills but are ahead of you. It’s easy to hate these peers, but that attitude gets you nowhere.
Instead of hating, you should reach out to these peers. You can learn from how they conduct themselves, how they think and go about getting things done. The senior leaders at your company clearly like the way they conduct themselves, so why not get an up close view?
Put your ego in check, ask them out to lunch and start building a relationship with the high-flyers in your organization. One of them just might become your boss one day. Even if that doesn’t happen, you’ll instantly turbocharge your network and have powerful role models to learn from.
Don’t hate, gravitate toward the superstars if you want to become one yourself.